Love, bubs and life on our little farm

So confession time, I have been slopping along wearing old sad bra's from pre-pregnancy circa 2006 and even my maternity bra's still. Nothing fits because after breastfeeding and my random weight loss, the girls are a shadow of their former selves (and there wasn't much to begin with LOL).

So today I headed off to grab a nice crisp white T-shirt bra to improve matters :)

I however got distracted by pretty shiny things as I tend to. So I found myself picking up a lovely Pleasure State Couture set to try on. And I had to have it - the soft latte colour (creme brulee if you please according to the label), the stripy metallic satin, ribbon straps and the delicate inset crystals were just too nice to say no to. So splurge I did :)

Oh in case you were wondering the sensible part of me also required me to buy the white T-shirt bra. ;)

It's been a busy week as usual around here with visitors, crazy work and errands to run etc but I am counting down now until this weekend - its my friends wedding and as I have posted previously Jase and I have a lovely hotel room in the city sans toddler and I have a pretty cocktail dress to wear. Can't wait! I am all tidied up - have had my hair done, eyebrows shaped and have even bought some of the individual fake eyelashes that I used for my wedding and loved. Looking forward to getting dressed up and not having to worry about ending up wearing streaks of mushed banana or tomato sauce from the little monster :)

In the meanwhile I am enjoying my non-work days, meeting up with a friend, some shopping for summer clothes for Elka tomorrow and my parents are arriving to be the live-in babysitters :)

SE QLD has forgotten that its winter here and has bypassed Spring and jumped into Summer it seems - we have had a couple of above 33 degree days already and more to come. So its Summer fashion all the way. To think I desperately shopped for the perfect stockings, cardigan and pashmina for my cocktail dress as I thought I would get cold! Now all I need is some sunblock for my bare shoulders!

In the meanwhile, I am in love with the new bandage skirt styles that are cropping up in the magazines. Thank you As Seen In as usual for providing me with pics to drool over :)


Funky yet elegant at the same time - love it!

Yep the high temperatures have had me sweating in my jeans and vowing to bare my legs again. So we headed to DFO for some spending :)

Cue many frustrating trips to my favourite shops - even Forever New failed me!! I couldn't find anything that appealed or much new season (OK OK I know I am shopping at outlets and shouldn't expect new season). Also EVERYTHING was size 14 - whats with that? I thought people were getting fatter? Shouldn't size 14 be more sold out than size 8 therefore? (again I know I am outlet shopping and shouldnt expect my size to necessarily be there!)

Until... the last half an hour, where I hit paydirt including some new season tops that had just been marked down and I snapped up the only smalls :). Even the shop assistant was impressed at the cuteness and the price (the two for $15). Sorry too lazy to take pics - but one is a mushroom coloured sequined long singlet and the other is a summery loose white top with ribbon detailing on the bottom to cinch it in.

Most importantly I found the summery pretty kaftan style dress that I had been coveting AND it was in my size and hidden at that back of a sale rack. And it looks great with my brown belt and my new shoes (see below)


Witchery came through for me too with some great (80% discounted!) summer sandals that are just perfect for all the tie-dye and floral dresses and tops I am planing :)


So still on my wish list: (which got dramatically shortened half an hour ago when I dug out my summer clothes and realised how many items on it I already owned - whoops!)
- denim shorts that don't make me look hoochy
- a tye-died singlet top that isn't too hippy throwback
- a pretty floaty blouse
- a summery floral maxi-dress

What else do I need? I would love some suggestions! Or tell me what you are coveting!
xox

I blogged recently here, about the work I have been putting into Spech and his showjumping. Well... we went to an open EFA Showjumping Comp on the weekend and I was so proud of him - him jumped really well and jumped all the things he is afraid off including walls.

I was happy with that - but even better he came fourth out of a big field! So we won a lovely rosette which he is sporting in the pic (I didn't take the camera hence why he is wearing it at home in his paddock rug hehe). Unfortunately only first to third won money prizes so we just missed out, not that I mind but its always nice to win some money back for all the money you spend on the ponies!

I have had a bit of a rotten week - its been a tough one at work and I have been moody and short tempered. If anything, I have been sulking and reveling in that sulking.

Today I got a reminder that its not all about me. I met up with my mother who was driving an older friend 3 hours each way to some medical appointments in Brisbane. Now, that is the sort of lovely thing my mum does for her friends - gives up a whole day and sits in waiting rooms kindly having inane small talk with people she doesn't know.

That was already making me feel a little selfish for being a grump this week. Then I spent some time with the lady Mum was taking to appointments - she is being diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis (MS). A hideous horrible degenerative disease with no cure. Not only that but she cares full time for her brother who has had stroke and lost movement down one side of his body. And she never once looked sulky, upset or even wanted to talk about herself - instead she cheerily shopped trying to find a toy to buy Elka!! Well... I know I would not have been acting with so much grace and dignity, being so selfless.

So today I take my hat off to her and her grace under fire. Its nice to realise sometimes that life doesn't always need to be about yourself.... and that it should be lived with a beautiful spirit.

I love the term mini-break, it reminds me of Bridget Jones. But more to the point, we have been in desperate need of one.

So thanks to the Brisbane show holiday, Jase took a few more days off and we headed to my families beach house on the Tweed Coast, which is just a short drive away. Its a gorgeous area - quieter than the Gold Coast and with one of the best beaches on the whole coast. There is also some lovely tidal rivers perfect for bubbies to play in.

Our house is modest - its barely had any work done on it in 20 or so years but it's on a huge block, two storey with lovely bright bedrooms and a deck overlooking the lush overgrown rainforest gardens which are home to a family of bush turkeys. It is two blocks from the village centre and the beach. The village is filling up with trendy cafes and bars now, the creep of the Gold Coast is encroaching. We have decided to embrace the change rather than whinge about what it was 20 years ago when we bought.

So we swum, played with Elka, walked for miles, soaked up the crazy hot weather, ate a lovely breakfast at a beachside cafe, drank wine on a resort terrace watching the sunset colours paint the sky over the waves and lazed around reading magazines. Bliss and the recharge that we needed.

I am back from a lovely beach holiday (all of an hour from our farm hehe) and the weather is just devine here in SE QLD at the moment. The sun is hot and even I was in a bikini in the water in winter :) (it normally has to be over 30 degrees for my cold bod to think swimming is a good idea)and of course I had to dust off my shorts... (and my legs!)

So now I am all inspired by skirts and shorts again. I tried on some cute cropped denim shorts today but the colour did nothing for my light skin. I have my eye on some cute shorts at Witchery instead..

But I am loving the soft skirts that are coming in - all in pretty batik, dye dipped and tye died colours. Very casual and summery. A lot of the shop girls had them dressed up with tucked in tank tops and heavy belts and necklaces to give it an edgy look. I liked.



Forever New is in love with colour at the moment - it was so pretty just walking through the store admiring the dresses. If only I needed one! I can't justify it with the amount of baby food, vegemite and snot I currently get to wear lol. However, I think I will cave and buy a pretty floaty kaftan soon ;)

So I need to start working on my Spring fashion wish list I think :) Feel free to inspire me with what it catching your eye!

Blog This Challenge



I am currently reading "The Black Death: a personal history" by John Hatcher. Yep nerd that I am, I don't get enough of infectious diseases at work so I read about them in my down time too! Actually my boss lent it to me as he is also a disease freak :)

John Hatcher is a historian trying to capture the nitty gritty of life during the Black Death or plague outbreak in an England village. So far, it is a little slow as he is clearly fascinated by every historical detail. But it is still interesting. I am of course eagerly awaiting the gory details that he should delve into when the plague starts to hit..

Gee I am not as boring as I might sound - hehe if you read my blog at least you know I do have other hobbies other than work lol!

Three names I go by:
1. Mummy/Mama
2. Ames
3. Dr J....

Three Jobs I have had in my life:
1. Riding Instructor
2. Science Tutor
3. Waitress

Three Places I have lived:
1. Far North NSW Coast
2. Canberra
3. Brisbane

Three Favorite drinks:
1. Milo
2. Soda Water
3. Champagne

Three TV Shows that I watch:
1. So You Think You Can Dance
2. Project Runway
3. True Beauty (its so bad but so good!)

Three places I have been:
1. Japan
2. Italy
3. Amsterdam

Three of my favorite foods:
1. Fresh white bread with butter
2. Decent Italian
3. Massaman Thai Curry

Three Things I am looking forward to:
1. Adam and Lee's wedding - we have a hotel booked and a babysitter for Elka
2. Our beach holiday in a few days time
3. Our trip to Sydney in September for Dana's engagement party - we have booked a gorgeous 5 star hotel :)

Three Things that are always by my side:
1. Elka
2. My phone
3. a cardigan as I get cold really easily

Three people who have e-mailed/messaged me today:
1. Dana
2. Kerrie
3. My mum

Three favourite colours:
1. Plum Purple
2. Mint Green
3. Chocolate

Three favourite items of clothing:
1. Grey Skinny jeans
2. My new cocktail dress
3. Witchery black long cardigan - Italian wool, so soft!

Last three words uttered:
1. Yeah
2. I
3. agree

My Thoroughbred Spech (Racing name is Special Knowledge) is a gentle sweet horse that thinks he is a dog. He is also a bit of a wuss - new things scare him. Actually, so do Kangaroos, strollers, brick walls, mailboxes.. the list goes on. Needless to say - showjumping which involves jumping brightly coloured obstacles is a big ask for him. A hoof injury and equine influenza also resulted in him not being able to jump for a long time.

However, this year I have had the chance to spend more time on training him in showjumping. And in our last competition, I actually entered him in the highest jumping grade at our little riding club (its not overly high in the world of showjumping but hey its high for that club!) and he soared over the jumps and got two clear rounds to place fourth. I was so proud.

We are now entering a showjumping competition in a weeks time. He has come a long way and its lots of fun seeing him improve!

Its so gorgeous and warm here, it seems winter or our wussy Qld version of it is nearly over.. I have started thinking about dresses and bright colours.

I am feeling inspired by all the lovely strapless dresses around at the moment. As Seen In has picked a few cuties - notice the early 90's inspiration... I don't normally like bright florals but I think I might be in the mood this year :)


Your thoughts?

1 What time did you get up this morning? 7am - Elka gets up at 7am every morning so I do to. All though on work mornings I am up at generally 5.45am, long before munchkin is!

2. How do you like your steak? Medium rare and with a yummy pepper sauce

3. What was the last film you saw at the cinema? Transformers

4. What is your favorite TV show? Next Top Model, Project Runway or So You Think You Can Dance

5. If you could live anywhere in the world where would it be? Here in SE QLD or just over the border in Far North NSW where I grew up :) I love it - its beautiful and the weather is just perfect

6. What did you have for breakfast today? Vegie Toast and Porridge with honey

7. What is your favorite cuisine? I love Italian but also love Thai, Turkish and Japanese..

8. What foods do you dislike? Fast Food - particularly McDonalds or Hungry Jacks. I refuse to eat at those places, its not real food.

9. Favorite Place to Eat? I love picnicking at the beach - particularly at Rainbow Bay - killer views and its all free

10. Favorite salad dressing? My mum's gorgeous dressing or balsamic

11.What kind of vehicle do you drive? a 4WD - its a luxury edition with leather seats etc that I have trashed by using it for horse competitions, carting horse feed and the baby hasn't helped!

12. What are your favorite clothes? Currently its jeans with knee high boots but it varies depending on the season. I love my Witchery work clothes too - its nice to be all dressed up..

13. Where would you visit if you had the chance? I want to go back to England and Italy oh and Japan... but there are a million other new places I want to see too! That is too hard a question!

14. Cup 1/2 empty or 1/2 full? half full most of the time

15. Where would you want to retire? on the coast here in SE QLD

16. Favorite time of day? I am a big morning person - I love watching the sun come up over our back dam with sunbeams pouring through the gum trees

17. Where were you born? Canberra

18. What is your favorite sport to watch? Rugby League - bogan that I am. I am in a tipping comp and have been leading it most of the season!

19. Who do you think will not tag you back? dont feel like tagging anyone

20. Person you expect to tag you back first? see 19

21. Who are you most curious about their responses to this? I like reading everyones responses.

22. Bird watcher? I like watching our birds here on the farm - we feed most of them and they are quite tame. I love watching eagles fly over. And I feed our chickens and ducks so I guess I do a fair bit of bird watching without knowing it!

23. Are you a morning person or a night person? morning

24. Do you have any pets? 2 cats, 4 chickens, 2 ducks, 2 horses

25. Any new and exciting news you'd like to share? not at the moment.

26. What did you want to be when you were little? a vet

27. What is your best childhood memory? just running around the farm with my brother with no cares in the world. Playing in flood waters with the boogie board too (Of course totally not a safe thing to do - but was so fun!)

28. Are you a cat or dog person? I love all animals so I love both.

29. Are you married? Yep - almost 5 years now!

30. Always wear your seat belt? sure do

31. Been in a car accident? Nope - besides small dingles with trees (thanks to living in flood prone areas with slippery driveways!)

32. Any pet peeves? So many when I think about it! I hate lazy people, people who never return phone calls and messages and people that spend their whole lives judging others.

33. Favorite Pizza Topping? homemade pizzas with lots of pineapple and cheese or tandoori chicken and mango chutney - yum!

34. Favorite Flower? Tulip

35. Favorite ice cream? I am dairy intolerant so dont really love it. I love gelato - especially the amazing gelato we were buying in Italy and the yummy Salt Special gelato at Salt Village near our beach house

36. Favorite fast food restaurant? humph see number 8. I will eat Nandos and a rare KFC and red rooster chips.

37. How many times did you fail your driver's test? Once - I left the handbrake on hehe and the tester couldnt believe how well I could ride the clutch to keep the car going for the rest of the test!!

38. From whom did you get your last email? Dana showing me here devine wedding dress

39. Which store would you choose to max out your card? Horseland or Witchery

40. Do anything spontaneous lately? most things we end up doiing are fairly spontaneous.

41. Like your job? I love it - so challenging, changes every day, combines everything I love about science, research grants, clinical testing, lecturing at uni and supervising research students but I have the wonderful bonus of being a well looked after public servant.

42. Broccoli? Elka loves it

43. What was your favorite vacation? Hard to choose - our honeymoon to Samoa or our European/Japanese backpacking adventure :)

44. Last person you went out to dinner with? Jase's parents

45. What are you listening to right now? the radio on outseide while Jase does some landscaping work and Elka stuffing her face full of sultanas, oh and the ducks are waiting at the door quacking!

46. What is your favorite color? Mint green or plum purple

47. How many tattoos do you have? none - my skin is way too pale to look good with a tattoo!

I am feeling really indecisive at the moment... I just can't commit to any decisions. Do I want to enter the showjumping competition that is coming up... do I want to call the tree-loppers for a quote on cutting down a dead gum tree on our driveway... even shopping is leaving me flummoxed - do I want coffee cups, jumpers or some new summer clothes - dressy or casual? Do I want to save my pennies for now? Oh but what about the Oroton sale - but do I really need a new handbag? Do I want to clean the house throughly or do I just want to do a cursory clean and have some relax time instead? Are we going to book a fancy hotel for our trip to Sydney or something more practical close to the party we are going for... What shall we do with the mini-holiday that Jase is taking from work soon... Arrrgh!

Normally, I am the sort of person that just makes a decision and gets on with it. But I seem to have lost my confidence. I think I know what it is - we have a few big happenings potentially coming up in the second half of this year, early next year but at this stage nothing is decided or committed to. So I am don't know what to think yet or what to plan for and its trickling down into all facets of my life...

I really need to learn to live in the moment. Just soak up the loveliness of being right now. I know the rest will work itself out :)

.. but then I worry that without some goals we won't push forward and achieve what we want. arrgh I am so indecisive I can't even decide on how to make myself feel better! I think I need some chocolate....

I was at competing at a Dressage/Showjumping competition on the weekend. It is something I have done for years and its like second nature to prepare the horse and myself. However, it did cross my mind at how things that are just normal life to a horse owner/competitor are not quite so normal to the non-equine enthusiaist.. and I had to list some



10 Signs that you compete horses..

1. You cant imagine not being able to braid. It is an essential skill, not only that but it must be performed whilst standing a foot in the air on a rocking milk crate desperately hanging onto the slippery forelock of a fidgety horse.
2. You knew a thousand uses for baby wipes long before having a baby.
3. Your saddle cost more than your first car.
4. You were wearing knee high leather boots over pants way before it became fashionable.
5. It's not strange that the person riding next to you spent 12 thousand dollars to buy their horse.
6. You use horse make up, hairspray, wonder soap, Mr Sheen etc on your horse and don't understand why non- horseriders think that is funny.
7. Your horse sees a variety of medical specialists monthly but you won't go to the doctor unless its possibly terminal.
8. You spend hours clearing the paddocks of manure and you think your visitors will notice.
9. You never have to worry about tuckshop arms; trying to control half a tonne of horse that thinks its still a racehorse, move hay bales and carry water and food buckets is better than any gym.
10. You have broken at least two fingers and three toes and you know two or more people that are missing a finger to the first knuckle.
    

So you might remember this post here, where I am going to a cocktail wedding next month. Well I found my perfect dress for it whilst wandering through Witchery and better yet it was on sale and then further discounted- could it get much better (well it did actually cause I discovered I needed it in a size 6 - always a nice surprise!). The photo doesn't do it justice, its very pretty on and the top is a lovely sheer cream and the skirt a lovely soft pink mushroom colour. I have the perfect earrings for it and some nice chocolate pump heels that should suit but I still need some light stockings, possibly a new strapless bra and I am not quite sure what wrap or cardigan to buy to match it... (any ideas? I was thinking a dusky pink?)

Its actually surprisingly similar colours etc to the Alex Perry gown that I posted in my orginal post - funny how that worked out!